I don’t have a soul.
I AM a soul. I HAVE a body.
My body is not a reflection of my soul.
I am not my body.
I just need my body to be Here.

Continually fighting with my Body is painful. Achieving peace over my body issues requires me to Accept its appearance, and it’s functional abilities.

Our culture’s Diet and Fitness Industry teaches us to fear Acceptance of our Body’s appearance and the way it functions. It warns us against Compacency; telling us to be aware that there’s something wrong with our body and the way it works; and that they have a million ways to sell us a way to make it look or function “better”.

Complacency is a feeling of satisfaction with an existing situation
while unaware of some potential danger or trouble.

Acceptance is agreeing to receive something or the act of receiving it.
An acceptance of someone or something is an indication
that you approve of or believe in it, or them.

There is a distinction between Acceptance and Complacency.

Complacency assumes you have a belief that you aren’t strongly holding yourself to, or that you are accepting “less” than what you believe should be “more than”.

True Acceptance of your body removes the belief that something about it is lax, loose, or lazy, and the belief that your body has standards which are relative to some “Ideal”. Acceptance is changing your personal Ideal to meet a standard that is realistic with the way you truly and realistically want to live.

Appearance, … the way you look, …is not a reflection of Spirit (or Value).
Also, Function, …the things you can do, … is not a reflection of Sprit (or Value).

I am not my body, so therefore it is not a parameter to judge myself by. If I was in an accident that severed my legs, it would not make me half of a spirit (of less value).

If I exercise abusively and end up with permanent osteoarthritus and major spine issues... I am not those ailments. Those ailments merely reflect the abuse I gave my body, based on the idea that my body was a reflection of my spirit.

That concept (that my body is a reflection of my spirit or my value), is a complete illusion which keeps us addicted and tied to our body image, our appearance.

This is also true for people who attach spirit (or value) to body function. Many people believe their physical abilites give them some sort of spiritual power - some added value, so if they can’t jump higher, lift more weights, have the best resting heart rate, and physically do something well, they are less valuable without those abilities, than they would be with those abilities.

My body is not a reflection of my soul - spirit - value.
I am not my body.
I just need my body so I can be Here.

The fat burning process is a complex biochemical process.

When you “lose” body fat, the fat cell (also called an adipocyte) does not go anywhere or “move into the muscle cell to be burned”. The fat cell itself, (unfortunately) stays right where it was – under the skin in your thighs, stomach, hips, arms, etc., and on top of the muscles – which is why you can’t see muscle “definition” when your body fat is high.

Fat is stored inside the fat cell in the form of triaglycerol. The fat is not burned right there in the fat cell, it must be liberated from the fat cell through somewhat complex hormonal/enzymatic pathways. When stimulated to do so, the fat cell simply releases its contents (triaglycerol) into the bloodstream as free fatty acids (FFA’s), and they are transported through the blood to the tissues where the energy is needed.

A typical young male adult stores about 60,000 to 100,000 calories of energy in body fat cells. What triggers the release of all these stored fatty acids from the fat cell? When your body needs energy because you’re consuming fewer calories than you are burning (an energy deficit), then your body releases hormones and enzymes that signal your fat cells to release your fat reserves instead of keeping them in storage.

For stored fat to be liberated from the fat cell, hydrolysis (lipolysis or fat breakdown), splits the molecule of triaglycerol into glycerol and three fatty acids. An important enzyme called hormone sensitive lipase (HSL) is the catalyst for this reaction. The stored fat (energy) gets released into the bloodstream as FFA’s and they are shuttled off to the muscles where the energy is needed. As blood flow increases to the active muscles, more FFA’s are delivered to the muscles that need them.

An important enzyme called lipoprotein lipase (LPL), then helps the FFA’s get inside the mitochondria of the muscle cell, where the FFA’s can be burned for energy. If you’ve ever taken a biology class, then you’ve probably heard of the mitochondria. This is the “cellular powerhouse” where energy production takes place and this is where the FFA’s go to be burned for energy.

When the FFA’s are released from the fat cell, the fat cell shrinks and that’s why you look leaner when you lose body fat – because the fat cell is now smaller. A small or “empty” fat cell is what you’re after if you want the lean, defined look.

It was once believed that the number of fat cells could not increase after adulthood, only the size of the fat cells could increase (or decrease). We now know that fat cells can indeed increase both in size (hypertrophy) and in number (hyperplasia) and that they are more likely to increase in number at certain times and under certain circumstances, such as 1) during late childhood and early puberty, 2) During pregnancy, and 3) During adulthood when extreme amounts of weight are gained.

Some people are genetically predisposed to have more fat cells than others and women have more fat cells than men. An infant usually has about 5 – 6 billion fat cells. This number increases during early childhood and puberty, and a healthy adult with normal body composition has about 25 to 30 billion fat cells.   A typical overweight adult has around 75 billion fat cells. But in the case of severe obesity, this number can be as high as 250 to 300 billion!

The average size (weight) of an adult fat cell is about 0.6 micrograms, but they can vary in size from 0.2 micrograms to 0.9 micrograms. An overweight person’s fat cells can be up to three times larger than a person with ideal body composition.

Remember, body fat is a reserve source of energy and fat cells operate like reserve storage tanks. Unlike a gas tank in your car which is fixed in size, however, fat cells can expand or shrink in size depending on how “filled” they are.

 Picture a balloon that is not inflated: It’s tiny when not filled with air – maybe the size of your thumb. When you blow it up with air, it can expand 10 or 12 times it’s normal size, because it simply fills up. That’s what happens to fat cells: They start as nearly empty fat storage “tanks” (when you are lean), and when energy intake exceeds your needs, your fat cells “fill up” and “stretch out” like balloons filling up with jelly (not a pretty picture, is it?)

So you don’t actually “lose” fat cells, you “shrink” or “empty out” fat cells.

FAT is not merely an inert storage tank for surplus calories. Fat cells don’t just store fat, the fat tissue is actually very much part of the body. Fat is an active organ than sends chemical signals to other parts of the body. The adipose tissue (FAT), occupies the niche of an endocrine organ, along with the pancreas, thyroid and adrenal gland.

The more traditional organs typically produce one or two hormones. However, fat cells, spit out a huge array of chemicals - at least 80 different substances. Among these hormones is leptin, which controls appetite, and adiponectin, which makes the body more sensitive to insulin and controls blood sugar levels. However, little is known about most of the proteins produced by the billions of fat cells in the adult body. Scientists have identified 80 different proteins produced by fat cells. These include new proteins and 20 proteins that have not been previously detected in human fat cells.

Many of the fat chemicals are not unique to fat cells, but a handful, such as leptin and adiponectin, are only made by fat cells. Scientists are trying to figure out what all these chemicals do, but many of them are involved in inflammation. The official term for all these chemicals being produced by fat cells (adipocytes) is adipokines.

Important Lessons:

Calories count. The signal that triggers your body to release adipose from fat cells is an energy deficit… you have to take in less energy from eating or drinking food than the amount of energy that your body uses ("burns") to sustain all of its ongoing activities.  Most of the body's activities are involuntary (such as breathing, cell repair, pumping blood etc.) which would continue even in a coma.  Voluntary activity, such as normal physical movement - which includes additional exercise/fitness activities - normally accounts for only about 16% to 20% (sedentary) to 25% (physically active) of all of the energy used by the body.

Eating food and fat burning are inter-related. You cannot lose weight without cutting calories, but when you cut calories, your body decreases many of its automatic functions, including the activity of fat burning enzymes that release fat from the cells.

After weight-loss, you must be forever diligent. Your fat cells are not gone, they have merely “shrunk” or “emptied out.” Weight-loss maintenance requires continuing a lower-calorie lifestyle forever.

Genetics and Life-History are factors. You can’t control the number of fat cells you currently have, but you CAN achieve control over SOME of the factors that determine how much fat you store. Reducing and limiting your food intake, through portion controlled eating, is the most important helpful factor in weight-control.

                               
Fat people have the right to exist in fat bodies without shaming, stigmatizing, bullying, or oppression.  "Well-meaning" expressions of your "concern" about their health etc. fall into these categories.

It doesn't matter why a person is fat, what being fat means, or if a person could be thin.

There are no other valid opinions on this. It is not up for debate. Fat people have the right to exist.