You Can Choose to Think Differently. - POSTED ON: Feb 22, 2011
Someone who is still Fat recently told me that they didn't want Thoughts about Weight/Food/Exercise to "Rule their Life".
I had no way to Help them toward that Goal of Mindlessness, because Thoughts about Weight/Food/Exercise have ALWAYS "Ruled MY Life."
I did not spend any less time Thinking about those issues when I was Fat than I do now. The difference is that when I was Fat my Thoughts were not accompanied by Action, while during my weight-loss period ...and now inside Maintenance... my Thoughts about those issues are now more positive and productive.
I frequently hear things like: “I don’t want to THINK about my eating.” “I don’t want to be obsessed with thoughts of food.”
Terms like Diet Mentality or Diet Head are commonly usedto denote the negative feelings people have abouttheir need to monitor their eating behavior for weight-control. All of us tend to seek the easier, softer way. and almost all Diets promise us one. Dieting is treated as a matter of “get in…get out”.Find the problem..fix it. ..and then “get on with your life:. which implies that once you’ve remedied the problemthat you can “leave it behind”.
Most diet book authors tell us that they have faced a weight problemeither themselves personally or as medical professionals, …sometimes both………and that they have found a solution, and they are writing that book to tell you what it is.
Perhaps they are writing for their own personal fulfillment or perhaps for financial profit. Still, they want to tell you what to do to FIX your problem. …and in the dieting world, fixing your problem means getting rid of fat.
Do you have a physical, mental, emotional, or spiritual problem? No matter, despite the source, or the reason…. A Solution is promised. A Solution is the answer to a problem. A Solution resolves, finalizes, and eliminates the problem.
But Life IS continuous. The end of life is Death. And eating will always be a major part of life, whether or not eating is a thoughtful conscious process.
The dieting promises of a “Solution” are illusory. The Goal of getting thin and arriving at a place where eating is primarily “unconscious”.is an very ineffective goal, because for a reduced obese person,unconscious eating invariably results in fat gain.
I’ve replaced that Goal with one less impracticable.My current Goal is to continue putting forth the consistent effort that it takes to maintain my weight-loss.This means I plan to keep using my mind to control my body’s food-intake.
I choose to think Differently about the dieting process. I don’t use negative terms like Diet Mentality and Diet Head. I’ve chosen to make all those issues part of a positive DietHobby. I changed my mind…from negative to positive.
Recording Food Intake - Counting Calories and/or Carbs - POSTED ON: Feb 21, 2011
I found the DietPower food journaling program in September 2004, while surfing the net. I started using it. I had good success, and still really like it.
I have logged all of my food into DietPowerevery day since 9/20/04, today, 2/21/11 makes 2346 consecutive days.
DietPower is my most essential tool for weight-loss and maintenance.……….However, like any tool, it won't be helpful unless………you make, and follow through with, a commitment to consistently use it. Before using DietPower I tried many times to keep track of my food and calories. That was very hard to do using only paper, a pen, and a calorie dictionary, I was never able to keep doing that for more than a week or so.
Diet Power changed all that for me. As entering all my food was easy, it became an enjoyable Habit. It is now as natural to me as brushing my teeth or making my bed every day. DietPower works with every diet one might care to use,and no matter what specific diet I’m on, I still use DietPower.
Counting calories long-term used to be very time consuming and difficult, however, using a computer software program like DietPower lets one do it with ease. In fact, because of my habitual use of DietPower, counting calories is now a Habit for me. I’m currently doing a Low-CarbExperiment and DietPower also makes it easy for me to count my carbs. DietPower is a very small company, and it gives great personal support. There is a free 2 week trial, and the program pretty much explains itself. When I first got it, I downloaded the free 2 weeks and I liked it so much immediately, that I bought it after using it for only 3 days.
Although DietPower is a simple program, learning anything requires effort.Also, installing a habit is not energy free. One must keep one’s commitment to consistent action for the weeks that it takes to establish the habit
of logging in one’s food. Consistent effort can result in habitual behavior.
DietPower has a big food dictionary with thousands of foods of all types and brands. For example it has tons of generic granola bars, and if you want to input quickly, you can just pull up whatever appears to be the closest to what you're eating. However, one thing I really I like, is the ease with which I can input the exact info from the label of my favorite food (for example: a specific Atkins bar) into DietPower's food dictionary, and then from that day forward, I have that EXACT information in my program. I use DietPower’s recipe function all the time. Although initially DietPower’srecipe dictionary contains a number of recipes, I must admit that I've never used any of them. However, I’ve put all of my own recipes into DietPower, by using ingredients from the food dictionary. So I know exactly what the nutrients are in one serving of any of my favorite recipes. When I eat that serving, or part of it, I simply input that choice into my food log which then tells me the exact amount of calories, carbs, protein, fat etc. in my food intake. Another good use for the recipe dictionary is that I can combine foods to makemy usual salad or sandwich; or even combine all the foods of a standard meal including a salad, a main dish, fruit etc. and then just a few clicks puts all of that food information into my daily food log. DietPower can be used just as it is, and you will want to do that at first until you learn the program well, but the benefits of individualizing the program are fantastic. There is a lot of information about DietPower on its online website, and I've found it all to be true. I have no financial interest in it, and I’ve chosennot to receive any payment for people who buy the program after clicking my DietPower links.
If you buy the program, my advice is to pay the small extra charge for them to ship you a disk. I don't like that "key" process, because it can take a day or two to implement, and having the program disk has really saved me a few times from computer glitches. Personally, I’m not fond of the metabolism function of DietPower, except as an area of interest. I find it much more effective to set myself a "constant calorie budget" than let DietPower zigzag my calories up and down. The program will tell you to eat far too few and then far too many calories. Perhaps that function works well for large men, but I've found it doesn't work very well for medium size to small women.
The thing to remember is that DietPower is just a tool. It doesn't work unless you use it.
If you have questions, feel free to ask them. You can easily access the DietPower website by clicking the icons located on the top and bottom of this page.
Update, January 2018: DietPower now only seems to work on an older Windows computer, and over the years, it has become relatively obsolete. Although I still choose to use it to journal my daily food, I supplement it with the use of My Fitness Pal, an online food journal which performs similar functions. As of this date, if I were just beginning to learn to use a food journal, my choice would be to use My Fitness Pal.
The Scale and the Big Picture - POSTED ON: Feb 19, 2011
The Scale is a weight-measuring tool
Body fat is only a part of the scale number. The scale measures the weight of everything in the body, including all our bones and tissues, along with the water and waste products that the body contains at the time that we step on that scale.
Eating salty foods will affect the body's salt/water/waste levels for several days. So will bowel functions. There are other functions of the body that involve the body’s water levels as well. This means that the scale will sometimes register higher numbers than it will at other times. It is the Big Picture that counts, rather than one’s weight on one individual day.
Here is an example of how the Scale can change from day to day, This is a graph that shows my own daily weights from spring 2009 thru mid February 2011. This weight range is between 109 -128 lbs. Weight bounces happen. Everyone has salt/water/waste issues. Some have them more than others. It is a RESULT, a function of the body that is essentially outside one's control.
I’ve been tracking my food and my weight in my DietPower food journal for more than six years, which has given me an enormous amount of detailed personal data. As part of my hobby, I play around with that data, making various graphs and charts.
Weight bounces are so common for me, that a perfectly consistent weight is unusual. This morning a comparison chart I’ve been running, showed something that, for my body, is remarkable. This graphic shows my weights on 2/19, for the years 2008-2009-2010-2011.
Due to my frequent bounces, the fact that each of these 4 year records show me in the same lb range on the same date is incredibly unusual. I was pleased to see this specific evidence of successful weight-loss maintenance.
If you are interested in seeing examples of day-to-day scale variations You can access a great deal of that data by going to my ABOUT ME page and clicking the links to the charts and graphs contained there.
Some of those links show my Maintenance numbers during 2006 through 2010 in detail, and show the differences between my highest weight of each month, and my lowest weight of each month. This will show you that it is common for me, during any one month, to have a bounce range of 8 or more lbs. As I am over age 60, these weight fluctuations are not due to "female monthly issues".
These links will also show you my average monthly calorie intake, and the gain/loss from the first day of each month to the last day of each month. These numbers indicate that my bounce range is not explained by calorie excess.
I’ve posted my weights daily on the DietPower Challenge Forum for many years, and shared my daily bouncing activity etc. After time, I got tired of "excusing" and "explaining" my frequent gains and losses to new forum members, and I now choose to share my weight on that forum by posting on a variable basis, but normally at least once a week. This tends to show my "stabilized" weights, instead of my extreme highs and lows. However, inside my links, I still share that average monthly data.
Weight Bounces Happen Bounces are not EFFORT or BEHAVIOR and therefore, are not under one's personal control. ...They are simply a RESULT, an OUTCOME, which is not under one’s personal control.
There could be many reasons why one’s weight bounces. One's Body Water shifts continually, due to salt and for other reasons. Sometimes when one eats very low calorie, or low carb, and engages in heavy exercise, one drops a lot of water along with fat, and one's body eventually replaces that water. At times, one's intestines sometimes contain more than other times. i.e. Salt/Water/Waste issues.
Although most of us know this in our Minds. Our hearts …emotions… have difficulty accepting that Truth. This is one basic reason why more people don't lose weight, or maintain their weight-loss.
Losing weight or maintaining weight-loss takes an enormous amount of Consistency and Patience, along with some Faith.... and personally, I often find Faith to be the most difficult.
What About the Scales? - POSTED ON: Feb 18, 2011
What about the Scales? Should I weigh? If so, how often? Should I throw my scales away?
This issue is discussed frequently by those dealing with diet and weight-loss. After a lifelong battle with food and with weight (see ABOUT ME), I’ve established what works for me.
Regarding the scales: Over the years, I have had every reaction to them possible. I've eaten because they showed a loss, and I've eaten because they showed a gain. I've eaten because they didn't move up or down. I've felt bad because they went up, I've felt good because they went down. Sometimes I've felt bad, and sometimes I've felt good, when they didn't move at all.
Over time, I tried different variations to my use of the scales. I tried weighing whenever I felt like it, even if it was many times a day. I tried weighing once a day, and once a week, and once a month. twice a day, not weighing myself, but having a club or doctor weigh me. I spent several years not weighing at all. I've bought many scales of various kinds, and I've thrown away many scales.
The scales was never the problem. I did not like the Reality of the numbers registered by them. Like many overeaters, I have a strong tendency to lie to myself. It's easy to lie to myself about how much I eat, and I can also lie to myself about how much I weigh.
In order to face reality, I have to have an objective standard. I weigh every morning after using the bathroom, but before I dress. I write that weight down. I then record that weight on charts and graphs that I keep.
I feel emotions during this process, just like I feel emotions about lots of my other daily activities. I can emotionally eat because I do or don't like the number the scale tells me or I can emotionally eat over something I hear in the morning news. ............or over anything at all..... Facts are facts, and emotions are emotions.
I continually work to avoid emotional eating, no matter what the cause. Not facing the truth of facts isn't a solution to emotional eating.
Some mornings the scale shows me up 2-3 lbs from the prior morning. I don't like that. However, I KNOW I didn't really gain 2-3 lbs of fat overnight... because I'm not a moron.
I know that it's the Big Picture that counts, rather than one individual day or one individual weight. Since it takes approximately 3500 calories above what I burn to gain 1 fat lb. I know that the calories I took in the day before wasn't even half of that. I also know that eating salty foods, will affect my body's salt/water/waste levels for several days. This means that I will register numbers higher on the scale.
Whatever the reason, when I see higher numbers on the scale, I know that for the next few days I will need to eat smaller amounts of lower calorie foods.
Do I feel frustrated by this? Am I angry and disgusted?
I hate the Reality of the fact that I cannot eat everything I want to eat, all the time.
THAT is what I feel frustrated by. THAT is what sometimes angers and disgusts me. The number on the scale just reminds me of that Truth.
My determination to stay the course and view the numbers on the scale in a positive way, and my determination to accept the Reality of the fact that I cannot eat everything I want to eat all of the time, is an ATTITUDE CHOICE, and that choice isn’t always pleasant or easy.
This is an ultimate Truth for me: I must face Reality; Change what I can; and Accept what I can't Change.
Welcome to my World - POSTED ON: Feb 15, 2011
I am very pleased by the positive responses I've received about the DietHobby site,since my recent announcement that it is now operational. I plan to post frequently in this ongoing blog, and also add more pictures and videos, and recipes and links and other information here in DietHobby.
As with all technical things, some glitches don't show up prior to use, so we are still working out some problems with registration and log-in, which is supposed to be required before making comments. (to avoid spammers etc)
I hope to remain responsive to viewers, and make changes in my policies as needed. Originally I was advised to exclude signatures because people's user names are supposed to automatically appear. Due to some technical registration and log-in issues, that isn't yet operating perfectly. So I made a change this morning and am asking people to PLEASE DO put their signature INSIDE their comment. Signatures. Please DO end your comment with your user name.
My understanding of the process here is: people can access and view anything on DietHobby without registering or logging in. However, before they can participate by making comments, they must register. Registering is meant to be easy, and no data gets saved or published or sold etc.
After people fill out the short registration form, they are supposed to return to their e-mail and click the link the web-site sends them. As soon as they do that, they are registered, and from them on all they have to do is log in. When someone registers, the site automatically sends an e-mail to me, telling me that I have a new registration and who it is.
I've noticed that most of the websites I normally go to log-in with a user name, However, my web-developer-genius (son) absolutely insists on using an e-mail address for log-in. This seems to be mainly because so many people get locked out because they forget their user names, and dealing with that issue is a hassle for the site-owner (me). Your e-mail address is totally confidential and no one will ever send you anything, including me, unless you give me special permission.
You can log on or off while you're on the site, but when you leave you are automatically logged off, and will need to re-log each time you return and want to make a new comment. I'm don't understand the technical reason for this, but that's the way my son says it's going to be. So, it will be helpful to me to have my online friends register, log-in, and make comments as soon as possible, because that is the way I can discover any problems of the DietHobby site. Please send me an e-mail if you have any difficulties so I can get them fixed. My e-mail address is drcollins@diethobby.com which is also posted here under CONTACTS.
All my blogs reside here in my HOME link -- including the posts re books under discussion in BOOKTALK. My oldest posted Blogs, which are numbered from 1-22, are my "Why We Get Fat" Summaries and comments. The easiest way to read and comment on these first 22 posts, is to click the link BOOKTALK. This will take you to a list of links of all those Chapter Summaries and comments making it easier to read and comment on them. My regular ongoing comments start AFTER those first 22 "Why We Get Fat" chapter summary posts, The starting date is February 7th, and Including this one, I have 9 such blogs posted so far, and will be continually adding to them. So, if you are here, and you travel backwards to read prior posts, after the February 7th post, it will be easier to leave this area and go to BOOKTALK area.
I made the "Why We Get Fat" Chapter Summaries and comments first, and lumped them all together, for easy access, because those Blogs will be highlighted for a very long time, probably at least a year. Some of my online friends from the No S Diet forum have already read my basic summary because although a primary reason for I briefing that book was to use it here in DietHobby, I first posted it in a No S Diet forum Thread for a discussion between me and a fellow No S Diet forum member,
Again, I want to remain responsive to you, my online friends, by addressing issues that will arise as we take this DietHobby journey together. Here is a link to my newly revised Comment Guidelines
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